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What’s one positive trait you’ve gained because of BPD?

14.06.2025 01:04

What’s one positive trait you’ve gained because of BPD?

And when you live in a life , of being terrified, and shocked, and permantly stressed; especially as a child born in to all this .

And, all my friends down the years ,where users.

She married twice! .

I'm straight, so why do I love watching guys cum?

I got to know the terrible awful childhood, he had himself. And his Jolly Pub Persona.

My mum and dad in the seventies!

Thats was my nicest nick name for him

Why do you think it is bad to allow people to self-identify as a different gender?

I worked then as a chef ,and a very good one.

Like some twisted love , they where addicted to each other

I had offered the whole expense of the holiday to her, free.

How do you write lyrics for a song that resonates with listeners?

I couldn’t, believe it.

But it wasn’t much.

When she asked me how she looked .

If everyone hates censorship so much, why do those “censorship-free” alternative social media sites always fail?

Then he’ d take out his beloved lump hammer ,show it to the kids.

And i lived it daily.

Took her away on holiday ,with us, my 2 pugs her dog, a Jack Russell.

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Im kind ,and give many things, inc money ,to any of persons in need. I have a groups of homeless beggars ..i help out daily. They all know me by name!

So he went home with my mum to her 2 other children.

On the 31st of Jan this month .

What does it mean when a guy says he's afraid of falling for someone else after going through heartbreaks?

I was 9 years of age.

Comes on , in middle age.

Although he,d calmed down a bit ..he still shouted his orders at me and thought , my older sister would be better at the job..

— fri(end)s forever!

We were all going out this night to a fancy resteraunt.

I was very sick at this time too.

I have no regrets .

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I only knew my twisted world , and there, is no choice for a child but to live in it. Or Die in it!

He was dying to do it , i knew.

Why did i forgive my father ?

What is the reason behind some people wearing trunks instead of speedos when swimming in pools?

But ive been too sick for many years..

It comes from Big T Trauma and is no fault of anyone who has it.

She was a women, a mother with her own children!.

Is it possible to permanently quit pornography?

I let him have the joy of his friends( that i would never know myself.!)

But my sister and my other 3 brothers wouldn’t have come near him every again!

Another so called friend had bit the dust..

My scammer is blackmailing me. If I don't pay 300 euros, he will send my intimate photos to my relatives. What should I do?

Trauma never leaves you! Its actually lives in the fashia ,of the body .The connective tissue.

All the time i was locked up.

What did i know ?

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That life, was meant to be , as the world teaches us great lessons, and leaves us many gifts.

And if you hold on to hate you only die inside yourself,!

Stress hormones Adrenaline and Cortosol ,would have flooded my brain, and they never left it!!!!

What’s the best way to get over someone you love?

19 years ,i spent with dear old papa.

It will be my last birthday ,as im dying of a brain tumor and 8 other autoimune diseases.

His abuse (his own) began at 2 years of age. His mothers friend, sexually abused him, from the age of 2.

What makes you different?

They look at me amazed ,and ask me how i could possibly know it?

I did write a poem about him though, and my mum.

This is how, and why children get BPD.

Why is there no great temptress figure in any of Tolkien’s major works?

We born here on earth , for the soul to learn , the contrast, of heaven.

She wouldn,t have been !

He had many friends, who didn,t know the home devil he was, for his sake ,i never enlighted them either.

But it has taught me many things other people will , never know!

He call us down, from where ever he stashed each one of us ,that day ! We were kept seperate.!

I was the most vunerable of my siblings. I was born small ,and was sickly ,and of course none of us could ever thrive!

Do all the shopping, and cooking and look after all the dogs.

I did it because my mum asked me too!

As i do to all so called friends.?

We didn’t no it wasn;t normal life..we were isolated, and taken from Dublin in Ireland ,where our whole mothers family lived , to Liverpool in England!

Even in the coal hole, i said the lines in my head..

But he said ,he was sick of her anyway ,and only put up with her as i had a friend ,and seemed to be happy.

Ive learnt so much.

She died at 55 of colon cancer.

I will be 64.

She was in good health!

She got all dolled up, but it looked as she was dressed up to play the part of , Florence Nightingale ,as she descended down the cottage stairs ,like a Queen.

Put me off passion for life!!

When he wanted one of his lessons to be taught!

And i know him well ,and every thing about him. This relationship, is the only real one iIve been able to keep!

We all went to grammer schools

Ther’s very good reasons why i was left alone.

I am a twin , my twin is a boy called Alan. I had a sister and 2 other brothers

He’d sit me down, and stand behind the chair, Then he’d make a great show of his beauty (the chesil )and place it behind my neck ,at the base!

(And it was in our own minds.)

I don,t even have a pension.

But im an empath, and i help lots of people.

I waited trembling.

For him, I cleaned and cooked and shopped, and spent the whole day, doing a weeks work) in the only day off, i had, besides Sunday.)

Her first husband, had been a gay man ,and he was a lovely person.

But i went to school ,and was locked up evey evening , until he was off out on a bender..then mum would set us free, and we,d be bouncing off the walls,

Anyway ,i could never hold on to a relationship.

You’d think that being brought up for so long, in those terrible circumsatances ,i would know the ways of people ,and the world, but i wasn,t in , nor of the world .

Insight, and i can spot a wrongin from 3 miles away.

I was grabbed out of my mother hung upside down, and rushed up to the prenatal ward, to spend 4 mths alone, with, only medical staff.

As is all addictions, people can’t leave off.

Who then, do I blame.?

I had many talking therapys , but they just don,t work.

I said to her

Due to the real legacy of trauma (B.P.D)

He weighed in at 5 lbs .I was the second born, and i weighed 3 and a half pounds.

But im a psyci anyway, and i read energy and people, .

As i said though i will be 64 on my last birthday!

The apprentership one gets in Extreme Big T Trauma childhood is insight and extreme awarness.

I ended up cooking for her, and bringing her eveywhere with us.

He knew the spot.

We could never speak unless he spoke to us!

Im constanly in a state of FLIGHT or FIGHT my whole life

My familys so full of ancestral BIG T Trauma.

But there where , these other acts only us 2 girls, would receive, (When id have rather had his lump hammer , and chisel.).

5 of us kids, and it wasn’t a big house.

He said i’d end up like her, and he laughed his big rolicking bear of a laugh!

He resisted the act ,that day.

As she had lost her son ,to fatty liver disease!

I forgave my father,, and in those years i cleaned and looked after him .

So whats the point in blame.

I suffer greatly, because of BPD..

My family never makes their pension either.

One cannot live in the past .

So, i spoilt her more .

Thats being isolated in a house, locked up as a child .We never saw any people except in School and we had no relatives in Liverpool!

One was a lump hammer, another was a iron chisel.

We were not on the streets..

Then later on when my husband had gone to the bar..she started telling me, that they where having a affair, and that he loved her much more then me ,and other loads of visious lies.

Everytime, i saw a chronically ill person in middle years.

I immediatly know and see what their chidhood was. I tell them you had a awful time in childhood.

She found it foreign!.

As his daughter ,he didn’t even think I wouldn,t do it. (Look after him)

The only way to get rid of it forgood ,is sommence therapy,

He isn,t a very sexual person at the best of times!

My place (mostly )was the coal hole..it was a small room heaped with coal .

And as runt ,of the litter .Which of course, i actually was!

They are buried together, in the same grave..

At this time i had honed my heart to the same, as that of a lion and i knew i wouldn’t beg or cry ,nor plead.

Why ? because Trauma depletes the immune system.you get terribley ill , with chronic disease from all the horror ,and stress of it.

Because , i didnt have the heart to hurt my friend.!.

Mine was extreme ,and lasted 19 years

Its a big thing in the States for the last 25 years.

I do have abandomment issues but they come from being left alone ,without my mum, or any of my family in a incubator for 4 months.

This is soul school!.

.I left my 2 sons and my husband to do it. Instead of spending the day with them

He was a brick layer (when he worked at all) and he carried his tools around ,hanging from a money belt.

But im dying ,and its too late for me.

And ive living now since 2005, on disablement .(Which is a pittance)

My only sister also couldn,t make her life work.

Also my liver and lungs are fatally diseased!

One of his many names for me was Runt .He like that it rhymed with (well you know)

But, we were locked up after school.

My life is so biszare .

Anyway, i told my husband ,and he was gobsmacked.

My twin will have involuntary pissed himself, but not me at least not, that day!

Trauma lives in the body, as ive explained, but it actually this that kills you in the end.

I never cut or harmed myself..

I could never make a relationship work though!

I of course replied” arh beautiful!

Where the ultimate outsiders.

The coal was sharp, and i usually had no underware! So my bare arse ,was cut and rossened on the coal..

Im dying but, im not bitter.

Those are used to try and block the pain, like that of my life out..

Its like, taking poison, and hoping the other person will die.

Being very nice and never wanting to say the wrong thing.

My dad was a alcholic psychopath, and violent in the extreme.

Yes, a stroke or heart attack is the reason on your death certificate.

I was writing from the time i was a small child.

Although we always gave her a kiss on the cheek. She would shrink away from it!

Your thinking ,but those kids would have been street wise?

I write beautiful poetry .

And as she herself ,wasn’t kissed or touched as a child.

She was deluded, and thought she could stay on for the reminder of the holiday!

I might have to go back 30 generations or more..

Would this be the day?

I had hoped to write a book about this .

I was scared of men, in general

I was seconnd youngest,

So i became my fathers slave and he hated me the most.

Youll pack your bags and leave Dorset.

And who doesn’t know suffering?

The same beautiful brown eyes my mother loved so much!

Because huge Trauma like mine is alive.

One cannot hold on to bitterness.

She died young (from the stress and abuse of Big T Trauma) of liver cancer!

With Catholic nuns and Church on Sundays.

Rather to engertic for me ,with my terrible health, but i was left to run the house, it was a Cottage in Dorset.

He took out the hammer, and explained again, how the smallest tap ,of this hammer would kill me in a second.

She said her life with him ,was love, and spoke to me of all the passion, it had brought her.

He did pay me though, i made him (.After i’d trudged miles to get his pension ) Before ,it all was gone, over the pubs counter!

I wasn’t taught any boundries, our home ,was like any war zone , and Dad told us, he had bodies buried, under the floor boards.

She loved him until the end.

As i gave and gave ,everything to people, they began to use me.

It was going to be , some day.

He said i reminded him of an old aunt ,who used to beat him, and when the menapause came, she was placed in a mental home and never was released ,until she died.

You don’ t get a state one here , in England ? until your at least 67 yrs old ! Im 63.

Especially a lifetime of it.

I know ,a lot about trauma.

His mum and dad ,were Alcoholics!

The only rule us 5 kids had .

But i am married 43 years to my husband this July !

I only stopped writing poetry recently, because , of my brain tumor

Im a true spealist, because i study it for years .And i still do..

She stayed with him because she thought he,d grow out of it. He didn’t of course!

I forgave my father, and i took care of him ,until his death in 1999..my mum left us on the 29th Jan 1998.

But people really die of the Big T Trauma!!

A line in front of him, from the eldest to the youngest.

Im still living with it.

One women pretended to my husband she wanted to see me for coffee ,and make friends.

Was to survive, this bastard.

We wern’t close any more, the family fractured, after my Mothers death, and seeing me annoyed them ,as i was the familys scapegoat..

Why do we forgive? Because if we don,t

He’d bring us out ,and we would form the position .

Its mostly always from childhood abuse .

I watched his eyes light up and his twisted smile rejoice, in his joy of it all.

BPD only comes to a person who has suffered childhood trauma.

My mother wasn’t a tactile women ..only as babes could she touch us. After we grew ,she couldn,t touch any of us.

I think the readers, may guess!

And don,t forget my 4 months alone, in the incubator. Knowing my brother in the womb and my mother voice .The baby knows she’s alone!